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Nov. 17, 2006

She was a tough but tender PM

Golda Meir loomed large in Israelis' hearts and minds, long after she stepped down.
EUGENE KAELLIS

As a mature woman, Golda Meir not only looked like the beloved bubbe she was, she also had the traits: warmth, wisdom, kindliness and love; but it was evident her love could be "tough love." She was also totally unpretentious. As Israel's prime minister, she preferred cabinet meetings in her home, where she would cook dinner for the ministers.

Meir came to Zionism at an early age. She spoke passionately at street corners in Milwaukee, Wis., where her family had moved to escape the problems and dangers of poor Jews living in Ukraine. In the United States, to eke out a livelihood for their family, her father became a railroad worker and her mother ran a small grocery.

Moshe Mabovitz could not abide his daughter's public agitation for socialist Zionism. Rushing to the corner where Golda was in the act of disobeying him, he intended to drag her home "by her braid," as he'd threatened. Instead, he was enthralled by her passionate oratory and abandoned his opposition.

In 1917, Golda married Morris Myerson, a sign painter whom she'd met while living in Denver with her sister. Whatever Morris's expectations, Golda was evidently not going "to settle down." After the wedding, barely 19, under "orders" from Poale Zion, she left her new husband to travel across the United States and Canada raising funds. As one of her friends noted, Golda belonged to Zionism and Morris belonged to Golda.

After the First World War, Britain was awarded a mandate over Palestine, largely because British forces had been successful against the Ottoman Turks, allied with Germany. Five weeks before General Allenby's entry into Jerusalem, Arthur Balfour, the British foreign secretary, had made a declaration, endorsed by the Allied powers, stating that Britain viewed "with favor the establishment in Palestine of a national home for the Jewish people." Meir was ecstatic: "I felt," she said, "there is indeed a God, there is justice!"

Four years later, in 1921, after a meeting with David Ben-Gurion, who was touring the States, Meir (the Hebraicized version of her name) made a decision. She left America and, along with her reluctant husband, moved to Palestine.

They joined a kibbutz in a northern, marshy, malaria-ridden region. Golda loved being a kibbutznik. She could accept the work, the poor facilities, the isolation, the daily doses of quinine. As long as she believed her activity brought closer the dream of a Jewish state, she was happy with whatever she did: raising chickens, picking almonds, taking care of children – all the while studying Hebrew and Arabic.

Morris, however, could not adjust. Barely two years later, they had to leave the kibbutz and move to Tel-Aviv, where he worked as a bookkeeper and Golda took in laundry. These, she said later, were the worst years of her life.

In 1928, her situation improved. She became secretary of the Women's Labor Council and its representative to Histadrut, the Zionist Labor Federation. Meir returned to the United States for two years in the '30s to serve as national secretary of the Pioneer Women's Organization. Through the war years and after, she held various offices. In 1945, when the British arrested most of the executive members of the Jewish Agency, she held the top position in the Yishuv (the Jewish community in the territory). Touring America, she raised more than $50 million.

Meir, bold as ever, could act on impulse, a trait that marked her life. Disguised as an Arab woman, she crossed the border and met with King Abdullah of Jordan in a failed attempt to convince him not to attack the new Jewish state. Meir was one of the signers of Israel's Proclamation of Independence and became the only woman on the Council of State.

Shortly thereafter, she was appointed Israel's first ambassador to Moscow. In one instance, when she was leaving Rosh Hashanah services, she was mobbed by a jubilant crowd of 40,000 Jews exhibiting definitely "un-Soviet behavior." To Stalin, always mistrustful of Jews, this was a major embarrassment and, until his death, he promoted a lingering, murderous pogrom against prominent Soviet Jewish cultural and political figures.

Meir had by now joined Mapai, Israel's Labor party, and was elected to the first Knesset. She became minister of labor and helped create Israel's national insurance plan. She remembered this time as the happiest of her life, "building modern housing for people who have lived in huts, even in caves."

In 1956, she became Israel's foreign affairs minister. While not a "hawk" in the conventional sense of the word, Meir believed very strongly that force must be met with force. Ben-Gurion, in what, from present perspectives, might be considered a sexist remark, but nonetheless one of admiration, called her "the only man in my cabinet."

Having a woman in leadership brought a fresh point of view. At one time, the cabinet was wrestling with a decision about how to protect women from an unknown serial rapist. When someone suggested a curfew for them, Meir retorted that it was not women who were doing the raping and that perhaps they should consider a curfew for men.

When, in February 1969, Prime Minister Levi Eshkol died suddenly, Mapai chose Meir to become Israel's prime minister, to avoid a factional battle. Always striving for peace, she called for "face to face" talks with Arab leaders. At that time, Israeli leaders still felt that by negotiating with neighboring Arab countries, they could also solve the problems of Palestinians living in the West Bank and Gaza. This obviously turned out to be unrealistic.

The 1967 cease-fire ending the Six Day War was increasingly violated by Israel's enemies. Although polls in Israel showed almost complete support for Meir's foreign and defence policies, her rebukes to Nahum Goldmann, head of World Jewish Congress, for his efforts to meet with Egypt's Gamal Nasser and her open support for the United States in its war in Southeast Asia created significant disfavor in Israel.

Meir's husband died in Tel-Aviv in 1951. They were never divorced. After their breakup, Meir undoubtedly had romantic liaisons. She was surrounded by interesting, often brilliant, men and she enjoyed her attractiveness to them. In this regard, however, she was discreet: "You don't live your intimate life in the open," she said. Unquestionably, being a woman, she was more likely to set minds spinning and tongues wagging.

Shortly after the Yom Kippur War in 1973, following criticism that Israel was unprepared, reacted too slowly and came close to defeat, Meir resigned as prime minister.

Meir was undoubtedly a "tough" figure in Israeli politics and in foreign and military affairs. She understood that Israel could not afford territorial accommodations that threatened its security because it might not then have the space or speed to withstand a major attack.

Meir, who was almost never without a cigarette, died of cancer in December 1978.

Her image as everyone's bubbe was based on her engaging smile, her eyes, still soulful as she aged, and her evident honesty and candor. She once said that her ultimate goal was that Jews no longer need be dependent on people who felt sorry for them. Being a good bubbe never interfered with her being a resolute defender of Israel.

Eugene Kaellis is a retired academic living in New Westminster.

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